The Cost:

     So, Soldier, what is your bottom line?

     How much are you willing to pay for His Presence?

      Wiling to give up what others think?
      Willing to give up money?
      Willing to give up position?
      Wiling to let go of children if He asks?

     Is there something He cannot have?

     Let Him know, and do it asap.

     Aloud.  Right  now.